Secular Wedding Officiant Frank Harlan performs contemporary Non-religious wedding ceremonies for Traditional M/F and LGBTQ couples hosting their celebrations in Seattle and surrounding communities. He is the preferred Officiant of straight, gay and lesbian couples who choose to put their faith in a partnership based in mutual love and devotion.


When it comes to Weddings, an Officiant, a Justice of the Peace, Minister, Priest, Rabbi, Celebrant, or Judge share one thing in common, they all can make your marriage legally-binding. After that, each of them is a lot different. The unique differences between persons who perform wedding ceremonies are their personality, presentation style, and the content of the ceremonies they preside over.

"Couples who work with me are usually looking to have their wedding
ceremony performed by someone who relates to their truths and values."

As your Wedding Officiant and ceremony director, Frank will assist you in crafting a coupling ceremony that you will be proud to share with your family and friends. No matter the size of your gathering, all ceremonies are personalized to reflect your relationship and be an intimate expression of the love and affection you have for each other.

I believe that my role, as an Officiant, is to assist couples in making their public affirmations of love. It is a momentous occasion meant to be celebrated, and witnessed by your family and friends. Spend a few minutes reading my Frequently Asked Questions and if you think I might be a good match for you and your partner, please give me a call."

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< Kristina and Nikki were wed in Seattle on Sunday March 31, 2103.

Q: What is the difference between a Non-religious and
a Non-denominational Wedding Ceremony?
A: Although somewhat structured like a traditional wedding ceremony, a Non-religious, or secular, wedding ceremony celebrates the love between the couple without invoking any religious content or subject matter. A Non-religious ceremony may include cultural symbolism and rituals in it's content. However, the primary focus and narrative is on the couple's commitment and fidelity to each other, and their shared optimism for their future together.

A Non-denominational wedding ceremony is religion-based but not necessarily focused on a single religion’s belief system. It usually includes prayers, religious readings and elements of various religious practices. Meaning that, the content and symbolism incorporated into the ceremony reflects a general belief in a higher power, and how that belief system relates to the success of your relationship. As a Secular Officiant, Frank Harlan does not perform this kind of wedding ceremony.

Lars and Katja shared an intimate ceremony at the Seattle Arboretum.